I find it epic to start the series of Wednesday 11.11 on a Sunday 😀
But… what if… not everything has to be ruled?
Last day of August 2025. Sunday. As if even the Gods measured this month to be completed on the seventh day of the last week. What a month! Forty-five Augusts in my life so far, and as far as I can remember, none of them was gentle, easy, or forgettable. August always seems determined to crack me wide open and show me the good, the bad, and everything in between. I could easily put Elton’s I’m Still Standing on replay and listen to it hundreds of times all day.
Love. The eternal topic. That superpower society so often mislabels as madness.
But what if… one slows down, observes, and questions the narrative?
Have you ever thought that a hidden part of you awakens when you finally meet true love? The one that cracks you wide open so that the light reaches the deepest, most hidden parts of yourself? What if, because of fear-based living and old beliefs, you don’t recognize the blessing? What if you miss the chance to sense the sacredness of what Love delivers—and give your power away instead?
While Love is in everything and everywhere, to be chosen and touched by it is an invitation to an epic upgrade no one prepares us for. Love is not merely about connection, pink clouds, chemistry, and desire. It’s not only softness or effortless floating. When Love finally meets you, it’s about activating your power—your capacity to face, learn, integrate, and embody all of who you are. Your shadows and your light, equally.
Meeting Love can awaken dormant archetypes within you. If you are unaware of what just happened, you might give that newly released wisdom and power away. Because when we truly fall in love, we’re not only falling for the other person—we’re falling into a part of ourselves that has been asleep. A part that suddenly feels alive, seen, activated. And then your soul whispers: “Oh, it’s time.” The genie has been released.
Depending on the frequency of the connection, different archetypes within you may be awakened. When the Priestess stirs, you may find yourself craving depth, sacred union, and transcendence. The Seductress rises with magnetism, aliveness, and unapologetic power. The Mother awakens in her protective, nurturing devotion that goes beyond logic. The Muse or Creator sparks the urge to build, write, and express. And the Wild Woman calls you back to freedom, truth, and life without rules.
These are not fleeting moods but living parts of you, and Love has the power to flip their switch.
If you don’t recognize what’s awakening, you risk projecting it onto the person you love—believing they are the one who makes you feel safe, who inspires your creativity, or who gives you power. And without awareness, you begin to depend on them to keep that version of you alive—and that is how you start to lose yourself once again.
Reclamation begins with recognition. Ask yourself: What version of me is being mirrored right now? What has this person come to teach me about my forgotten power?
Because this is not about them. It’s about you remembering you.
The shift happens when you start to see your lover as the catalyst, not the container. When you realize they are not the source, but the spark, the mirror, the reminder. When you see that you’ve become the Priestess, the Mother, the Wild Woman—it’s time to fall in love with you. To love the parts of yourself their presence awakened.
From that place, you act in Love from wholeness, not hunger. You stop chasing. You center yourself in Love. Because when Love activates the divine within you, the invitation is to choose it, learn it, embody it.
Love doesn’t come to mess up our lives.
What we fear is not the other—it is the hidden power within ourselves.
When we meet true Love, something shifts. It’s not only about romance, chemistry, or connection—it’s an activation. A part of you that has been asleep suddenly wakes up. You feel alive in a way no logic can explain.
Love took me by surprise. It arrived when I least expected it, and it cracked open not just one aspect, but all of me. When I met the one whose highest and lowest frequencies matched mine, it was as if hidden rooms inside me opened all at once. At the time, I didn’t understand what was happening. Being deeply wounded, and coming from fear-based beliefs about Love, I connected it all to him, to his presence. I thought he was the source. I chased him, tried to save him, help him, analyse him. Afraid to lose the aliveness I felt in his presence, I failed to notice I was channelling all my power into him.
The truth is: Love does demand a kind of madness—the spark that makes us cross limits, expand, burn. Society calls it obsession, but in reality, it is the soul saying: “It’s time to expand. Become.”
When you learn that different connections awaken different archetypes, you stop acting from fear and hunger. Instead, you embrace the invitations: to crave depth, sacred union, transcendence; to feel magnetic, alive, unapologetic; to nurture beyond logic; to create, write, express; to remember freedom and truth beyond rules.
For men, the activation is just as real. Love awakens the King, stepping into presence, order, responsibility, blessing others with steadiness. It awakens the Warrior, presenting courage, protection, purposeful action. The Magician rises, holding wisdom, vision, and insight. And the Lover keeps the heart wide open, moved by beauty, passion, intimacy. Love calls men, too, into expansion, growth, and new territory.
In a society where an open heart, raw passion, and intimacy are vilified—covered by shame or fear of losing control—the Lover’s activation can feel overwhelming. It pulls you beyond reason. You lose control in each other’s presence, and it feels too much for the mind to understand. So the mind tells stories, legends of: love as possession, madness, danger.
At first, it’s intoxicating. But then dependency creeps in—you need them to keep that version of you alive. And that’s how we lose ourselves. Again.
The reclamation—the true shift—happens when you no longer see the beloved as the container of your aliveness, but as the catalyst. Not the source, but the spark, the mirror, the reminder.
When you realize this, you stop chasing them. You fall in love with yourself—your own wholeness, your own awakening. You begin to live from fullness, not hunger.
Love activates the divine within you.
The King. The Queen.
The Warrior. The Huntress.
The Lover. The Muse.
The invitation is to step into your wholeness, your authentic self. Because the true gift of Love is not only union with another, but a homecoming—to your whole self.
Anna Konya – Tirana. 31.08.2025
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